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urrea

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2011-02-08 18-01-33

erotic literature from a non-available man Hi CL'ers hope you are having a great time as we head to the begining of 2011!!! I wanted to draw from the wide range of people here and ask a question I have been too close to clearly see lately. I am a very talented writter (or so I am being told :) and have been creating scripts and storylines for most of my life. The range of subject matter has been very diverse, but lately I have been feeling the strong and clear drive to delve into erotic literature. Not for the purpose of money or fame, but simply put, to share what is in my mind with anyone interested in it. I have been thinking of putting together an anonymous blog, where I would be free to write and share such stories. I will not be expecting communication with those who read it, nor would I be interested in meeting anyone -just sharing what is currently bound in my mind. ...and here is the question: I am happily married, not interested in meeting, or having any sort of affair. Would what I want to do constitute cheating? Not legally, but morally. Would I be in the wrong? What do you think? I feel very strongly about sharing my thoughts, but at the same time also feel very...guilty about it. I know I would not feel right in telling my better half, but the need to express this is very, very strong! What do you think? thank you in advance for your responses, you are the first line of moral /ethical /what-have-ya filtering I have pursued on this; your comments are very welcome MagicLetters :)
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I think you should use spellcheck :-)
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What did he misspell? I can't see it, and now it's going to bug me. ;)
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2011-02-10 9-15-54-

Hahaha: "I am a very talented writter (or so I am being ". Writer!
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    Two! I need a shower and coffee, clearly. ;) When I blog, I spellcheck that thing obsessively. And I have been known to go back even weeks later to fix an extra space.
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    kingman

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    2011-02-12 11-02-46

    I'm not sure why you feel guilty about wanting to write erotic stories. Why can't you tell your partner about that either? I wouldn't consider writing cheating, but perhaps your partner would?
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  • frommelt

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    2011-02-14 17-47-35

    what does your wife think? does she understand what fiction means? i have an erotic picture blog, and i don't consider that cheating.
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    holsten

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    2011-03-20 6-01-33-

    Cheating only means that you are outside of the "rules". That is it. Different games and relationships have different rules
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  • press

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    2011-07-20 7-51-25-

    Most erotic writers I know are married... it doesn't seem unusual at all. And no, none of the ones I know feel at all like they're cheating. People who write love stories aren't cheating, are they, if they happen to be married already to someone they love? Are you really sure that your spouse would object to this? I mean, it's fiction... we don't expect that writers of murder mysteries have really killed all those people. As long as you blog under a pen name and don't give out personal information, perhaps she would be OK with it.
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  • leisner

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    2011-12-30 4-38-32-

    Would it be cheating to blog? You'll have to ask your wife about that, as her opinion is the that matters here. You should definitely be asking yourself why you can't tell her about it, though. Why can't you have an honest discussion about this with the woman you are spending the rest of your life with? Hmm?
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    2012-08-10 5-10-36-

    thanks for the replies everyone :) @tallguy: I did not consider erotic fiction as a similar process to romantic fiction; thanks for that, a good point. @Ghost: the issue is this: I love my wife and we do have a great relationship spanning many, many years; she is, however, a very insecure person and I have allways been mindful to not create any situations where she may be uncomfortable, even when I feel there is no reason to be. I never mind doing this, it is part of our relationship. @tallguy: in the end, I don't "believe" I am doing anything past our relationship boundaries but I "feel" I am; my querry here is not whether or not I should be allowed to do it, rather, whether or not you folks would feel it's right or wrong if you were in my shoes. I am basiy externalizing my internal conflict and asking the broader community for your x cents -your personal barometer if you will :) :)
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  • hipple

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    2012-10-01 16-17-23

    To answer your question I would not consider this cheating. Kind of hard for me to see how others can, but whatever. I assume your reluctance to share this with your wife is that she may have problems with the story lines? And I assume these are fantasies of yours you want to share with others? IDK.......given how you lay this out I dont see this as a problem. However, if you start getting replies and conversing wth readers my opinion would change. At that point things start getting hazy.
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    You might be missing out on something here I mean if you tell your wife you write and lately you want to write smut. You tell her upfront. After questioned admit you have written a few things, but didn't share them w/ the world. She can either A) Say whatever or B) you a freak. Only you know the odds here. But let's say A is the answer, I mean what's the harm in a sexy story, right. Then she asks to read Maybe she gets hot - you get hot sex. Maybe she decides what you wrote gives her an idea - you get new idea sex. So you tell her you want a blind blog - maybe a week or so later. Baby steps and it seems ok. However, if you don't tell her and she finds it on her own. The odds of it going well is really bad.
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    I didn't say anything until I had a publishing deal (because I didn't want to be told that I was wasting my time, ha ha). His response was, "Well, now we'll finally have something different to give your folks at Christmas." And then that he'd support whatever I want to do. Most people that I tell just laugh. Most recent response: "That's the funniest thing I've heard all week."
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    Maybe I'm being sexist here, but I think it would be easier as a woman to do what you did and have your guy accept it then the other way around. Outside the FO, IMO, men get in trouble fast for anything involving sex. Think of it this way, if a woman sent a text to Brett Farve of her pussy - would she get in trouble? But when he sent a test of his junk - he did. Same thing, if I hit of the accountant and got out my dick - I'll be in a world of trouble. If she hit on me and got out her tits, she wouldn't be. If I complained, people would think I'm strange for complaining. Same, IMO, for this blog idea. If he does it w/ out her knowing, he is lying, cheating, bored w/ her etc. If she does then tells him - he's like ummm, fun. Now I completely realize that the FO posters are not included and there is always someone that sees it a different way. But in a generalizing way, this is why I stated it the way I did. Tell up front.
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  • kopacz

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    Hmm... I don't think so. There are three male erotic writers who regularly comment on my blog.are married,has a long-term steady partner. All three of them have blogs (thewith the long-term partner has a blog together with her; the other men's wives are not writers). The erotic writer's list I'm on has tons of male contributors, and I'm willing to bet most of them blog. Most of us have an "erotic writer persona" F page as well, many use Twitter, etc. It's all part of the business. Writing about sex, even about yourself having sex, is so, so different from actively trying to have an affair. I write almost all of my stories in the first person--that doesn't mean they are autobiographies (especially the ones told from a male point of view). However, whether the OP's wife would object, well, only he can say. I think though that sometimes people are less shocked about this sort of thing than we think they might be. I'm still not gonna tell my mom, but I think he should at least consider asking his wife.
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