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barrick

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2011-02-08 17-23-27

How to train yourself to orgasm in specific ways How to train yourself to orgasm in specific ways. A couple of notes before I begin. This is actual work, and you have to do it yourself. Although someone else can, and often must, assist; this is something you have to do yourself. Also, it's not an overnight cure or a technique, its an outline on HOW to change yourself on your own specifications. On a positive note, the basics can be applied to any part of your life you want. First thing, you need to know how to orgasm (in any manner). That is a different topic, which I have posted on before, but I will cover again if their is enough interest. Ok, so you have the hard part down -- your body knows how to orgasm. Next, while orgasming in your typical manner, think about what is happening to your body. Note which areas tense and in what order. Notice if you have your eyes open or closed, are you holding your breath, panting rythmiy, etc? Also, study all the different ways you orgasm, and the different positions you successfully use. Great part is this research is FUN. So have fun! Next, understand that pleasure and arousal are in your MIND! Your brain controls EVERYTHING, so you don't have to change your body, you just change your mind. A person can be taught to orgasm by hearing a bell -- just like Pavlov's dog -- so you KNOW you can do this. First part of that is to focus your fantasies on what you want as your pleasure point. In this case we'll use learning to orgasm vaginally, because it sparked the topic -- but anything can be used (I did it for anal sex). The idea is to become aroused by the IDEA of vaginal sex. Fantasize about it in conjunction with other pleasures. If you use clit stim -- think about vaginal sex while using clit stim, etc. During this time, do not use physical stimulation of the area you are aiming for. (This can get tricky, but be imaginative.) Get your mind used to the idea that you WANT, NEED, CRAVE the pleasure point.
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Erinna

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2011-02-09 11-01-00

part 2 -- sorry it took so long Once you are to that point, start incorporating the pleasure point into your typical pleasure -- but do it teasingly. Deny yourself! Tease and Deny, tease and deny!! Simultaneously, when ever you are working on your training, stop orgasming using the other methods. Use the pleasures to link your focus to your routine, but DENY yourself that easy satisfaction. This part may take a long time, so messing up some is not a problem--as long as you continue fantasizing and maintaining your focus on your objective. While not training, continue to fantasize about your pleasure point -- and THINK ABOUT IT while you orgasm in other ways. When you are craving and enjoying, it is time for the next step. You will work to force your body to orgasm in the manner you have chosen. If it is taking a long time to get to this point, try completly halting all other forms of orgasm. If your mind is getting easy pleasure it won't want/need difficult pleasure. To force your body to orgasm, you will use fantasies, tease and denial, and your knowledge of your own rythms. First, work yourself up for it. Lots of fantasies, teasing, foreplay, etc. Deny yourself, tell yourself you aren't going to get the pleasure, tell yourself you have to work for it, etc. Start enjoying your focus -- enjoy, tease, deny, and then when you are "close" force start creating your "orgasm situation." Rememeber all that stuff you learned about how YOU climax, use it. Force your musles to clench just like they would normally. And then release explosively -- on a conscience decision! The first time is likely to not feel like an orgasm, but you are training your body. The next time (or shortly thereafter) should be a real orgasm.
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solana

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2011-02-09 19-53-44

That sounds time consuming but interesting Maybe when I get older I will try it. I'm not having orgasam problems so far. *crosses fingers*
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2011-02-10 12-36-58

Thats all very interesting but I'm not even quite sure exactly how I come. From G spot or clit stimulation? I can only come when I am on top, which makes me think g spot. But once i was actually able to come just grinding on his dick, which makes me think clit. And then there was time I came from anal. That was amazing.
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That would be amazing.
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I have found mood setting - relaxation - to be the key - on and really focus on the reaction each sentance is having (p.s. a couple drinks don't hurt either lol!!!!) takes some practice but well worth it!
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2011-02-11 12-36-36

well, they are all true ways for you to cum, when the mind is ready and willing (and horny) everything else falls into place! ie. you can cum in many diff ways. My last gf was able to have strong orgasms by tit/nipple play alone! (well, I'm good).
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